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Apartment Style Wrestling

My husband and I live in Santa Barbara Co. California. I have done and am open to pins, submission, lite erotic and very light cat fighting. I enjoy role playing and fantasy as well. Always open to hearing new ideas. Not into damage or injury. We have made friends doing this and although it can get competitive on the mats at times, it seems to work best when we are friends before, during and after. ht 5' 2 ish, 117lb. Looking for woman reasonably close to my height and weight. More important than age.

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Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?I don't have one.

Facesitting Preferences

What kind of facesitting do you like?I don't care
Are you into being bound while smothered?No
Do you look at facesitting as a form of punishment?Yes


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageItalian
Height157 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureLegs
Body ArtBelly button ring, Pierced... but only ear(s)
Bra size34 / 75
Cup sizeC
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusRetired
Job TitleNurse

Looking For

My perfect matchmy husband.
Our first dateanywhere with my husband.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isSwitch
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
I enjoyDacryphilia
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasWrestling a farm girl in a rustic cabin with our husbands watching and enjoying a steak dinner afterwards from their own cows.


FetishesArmpits, Tickling, Smothering, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Fetish clubs

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterYes, definitely
"Off Limits":eating out the other female

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasywe have too many to mention. We'll discuss with the right people.
Fantasy locationHotel/motel
Fantasy sex partner:a red headed woman who is dominant.

Femdom Preferences

I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, High heels and a business suit, Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather, Latex
Ideal session:an erotic submission wrestling match with another female in front of my husband. Prefer couples.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:will discuss when we talk.